“Nicely,” it’s possible you’ll ask, “is not jewellery romantic by it is very nature?”
To some extent that is true, however we put on jewellery for any variety of causes that aren’t romantic… to look refined, to look skilled, to impress our associates and neighbors.
So what in regards to the romance of bijou?
On this case I am speaking about romance in a broader sense than merely relationships.
One thing extra like this definition from the dictionary:
“A high quality or feeling of thriller, pleasure, and remoteness from on a regular basis life”
That fantastic fission, that little bit of a chill that you just get from one thing that’s simply, effectively, greater than daily life.
Romantic jewellery is that jewellery that makes you are feeling particular, completely different, like a princess or a prince. That jewellery that takes you out of your regular hum drum life every time you place it on. The little one thing further that comes of carrying one thing actually particular.
Maybe that’s the reason gold is such a preferred steel for jewellery. I like silver and platinum and there are different metals (titanium involves thoughts) that make nice jewellery, however there’s nothing just like the romance of gold. To put on gold is to put on the jewellery of kings and queens. In historical Egypt solely the pharaohs and people particularly favored by the pharaohs had been permitted to put on gold. This sense of being particular and above the fray has continued to the trendy day. If you wish to really feel like royalty (or if you wish to give a present that claims you consider the one that you love as a king or queen), gold is the reply.
Different jewels that encourage emotions of romance are pearls, emeralds and rubies… and, in fact, for many individuals, diamonds.

By some means although diamonds do not appear to have the identical heat and romance as the opposite stones. Really diamonds weren’t traditionally valued as extremely was we do in the present day. A lot of the romance that has been generated round diamonds is do to de Beers within the early a part of the twentieth century instituting an excellent and really efficient promoting marketing campaign… so I’ll depart diamonds for one more day.
Then again pearls… Pearls really feel fantastic towards your pores and skin. They’re sensuous and mysterious. To look deeply right into a positive pearl is to look into eternity. There’s additionally one thing intriguing a couple of pearl, figuring out that’s got here not from the chilly onerous floor, however from an industrious mollusk.
Pearls have been prized in all time intervals and all cultures. Traditionally baroque pearls (massive irregularly formed pearls) had been used to make fantastic and incredible jewellery by embellishing them with gold an gems. Steadily these took the form of Neptune or different greek gods, sirens, lovely girls and animals. The Canning Jewel within the Victoria and Albert museum is a well-known and elaborate use of a baroque as the bottom for a good-looking merman.
Black pearls, significantly Tahitian black pearls have turn out to be highly regarded in recent times. They arrive in a variety of colours from spectacular purples and greens, by pinks to stylish browns. All are beautiful and the vary of colours provides them a substantial amount of flexibility in selecting simply the suitable pearl on your outfit and temper. Essentially the most lovely black pearl necklace I’ve seen was from Morrison’s a small manufacturing jeweler in Berkeley. The pearls had been organized in a rainbow strung collectively so that every shade melted into the one subsequent to it — gorgeous. And naturally what may very well be extra romantic than pearls from Tahiti?
(By the way in which, if you happen to put on pearls, do put on them towards your pores and skin, it’s good for them, however make certain that you don’t put on any fragrance, scent or lotion, a minimum of not the place it would contact your pearls.)
Emeralds and rubies are historically the emperor and empress of gems. Maybe it’s their vibrant colours that impressed our ancestors. Definitely that vivid blood pink and funky serpent inexperienced are onerous to disregard. Even in the present day emeralds and rubies of equal dimension and high quality are dearer than equal diamonds.
In Victorian occasions coloured gems had been used to spell out love messages. Typically this made for fascinating and never essentially enticing settings; however it is extremely romantic. As an example a chunk of bijou may need these gems so as:
LOVE: Lapis, Opal, Vermeil and Emerald.
REGARD: Ruby, Emerald, Garnet, Amethyst, Ruby and Diamond.
The form of bijou can also harbor a romantic message. Hearts and clasped fingers, fingers holding a coronary heart (Claddagh) and cupids are self explanatory, however some shapes are a bit extra refined.
For a lot of cultures, together with the Romans and the Victorians, snakes had been an emblem of putting up with love. A snake biting it is personal tail in order to make a circle is a very potent image of eternal love. Prince Albert gave Queen Victoria a snake engagement ring — the start of an extended and celebrated marriage.
Apparently lizards and frogs had been (and maybe nonetheless are) additionally symbols of wedded happiness. Maybe this explains the persevering with reputation of bijou depicting this wiggly creatures.
Jewellery within the form of flowers can also be symbolic. To cite Ophelia “There’s rosemary, that is for remembrance; pray, love, keep in mind: and there’s pansies. That’s for ideas.”
Different flowers generally present in jewellery are daisies for innocence, roses for the expansion and continuation of affection and bouquets expressing the commingling and compatibility of marriage. When you’re contemplating the proper present from that subsequent anniversary, reasonably than the widespread “anniversary ring” how a couple of extra romantic bouquet pendant?
So the following time you might be rooting by your jewel field earlier than that particular tryst or searching for the proper present for the proper lover, contemplate the symbolic romance of bijou and gems.